There is no such thing as “false” labor. The uterus contracts sporadically throughout the entire pregnancy as the uterine muscle cells stretch and prepare for the “real” labor contractions that will open and thin your cervix and push your baby out during childbirth. A better term for these sensations would be “warm-up” labor.
These sporadic contractions or tightening sensations are referred to as Braxton Hicks contractions. They are experienced as occasional lower abdominal menstrual-like cramping in early pregnancy. But, as your pregnancy progresses, you can actually feel your uterus ball up and harden, often from the top on downward before it softens again.
While not painful, Braxton Hicks can feel like uncomfortable sensations in your abdomen and groin area. They are usually brief and irregular, occurring without any rhythm or pattern. However, they do happen with increasing frequency, length and intensity as your pregnancy advances. This can sometimes make it hard to distinguish them from actual early labor.
To Relieve Discomfort From Braxton Hicks Contractions
Make sure to keep well-hydrated with at least 64 ounces of filtered, spring or well water daily, ideally between meals, at least 20-30 minutes before or 2 hours after. Lack of fluids can cause the uterus to become irritable and tighten more often.
Frequent Braxton Hicks contractions may also be your body’s message that you are doing too much and need to slow down, so take heed. Braxton Hicks contractions usually subside when you stop what you are doing and change your position, get up and walk around, sit or lie down.
During a contraction, stay mindful and fully aware of whatever is happening in the present moment. Get curious about, and lean into and even embrace your internal sensations without the story. Practice slow deep breathing, while consciously relaxing any tense muscles. Breathe into the most intense sensations you are feeling. This enables you to hone coping techniques for labor, and for life’s challenges! When you shift your mindset in relation to discomfort and pain, especially when everything is normal (but also when not), miraculous transformation occurs. Start by welcoming it all, and look for the deeper message in your symptoms. Your body is brilliantly wise and has reasons for its behavior. This not only helps lead to relief, but also minimizes suffering, as well as point you in the direction of root causes that you need to address.
Master your breath and concentration by simply being aware of your breathing, doing three-tiered breathing and extended exhale breathing exercises on a regular daily basis.
Deep abdominal or diaphragmatic breathing is the optimal form of breathing and an effective natural tranquilizer, especially if you do it often. To train yourself in this way of breathing, start getting comfortable in a reclined position or sit up straight. Place your hands on your belly and concentrate on breathing into them. Bring your attention slowly into your body from head to toe, observing and releasing any muscle tension. Be mindful of what you are currently seeing, hearing, smelling, feeling, tasting, and all the sensations of breathing.
Just watch without judgment or attachment. This takes you into the present moment, and is wonderfully relaxing.
Three-tiered, deep diaphragmatic breathing:
Exhale slowly through your mouth with an audible sigh.
Inhale deep into your belly for a count of 4 or 5. Imagine a pump expanding your abdomen and lower back which causes you to inhale, then allows your ribs to expand with air, then your upper chest to rise towards your collarbone and shoulders.
For a count of 4 to 5, slowly release your breath through your mouth in the same order as the inhale - from abdomen to ribs then upper chest. Let go and relax more each time you exhale.
Repeat this cycle for a total of 8 times or at least a few minutes.
For more guidance and deeper transformation, schedule an online or in-person breathwork session with me.
Visualize what the tightening sensations are doing to “ripen” your cervix as it helps it to soften, come forward, shorten, become thinner, and possibly dilate or open a little in preparation for labor at term. Be reassured that a ripe cervix often responds more readily to actual labor contractions, meaning a shorter and thus easier time getting to the point when you can push your baby out.
If you are bothered by these contractions and nothing seems to help, consider homeopathy specific to your individual symptoms. Homeopathic remedies are safe and amazingly effective in alleviating this sort of cramping during pregnancy. I have had great success with Cimicifuga or Caulophyllum 30 c particular to each person’s unique presentation. You can consult with a classical homeopath, or refer to books like Homeopathy For Pregnancy, Birth and Your Baby’s First Year by Miranda Castro.
Herbs can also help you relax, sleep, lessen the pain, and either discourage your contractions, or encourage them if you are term. If you are interested in herbs, there are several options to try alone or in combination. Go for high-quality sources like Gaia, Wish Garden or Eclectic Institute, or other professional grade brands I use and recommend like those in my online holistic apothecary. Most of the supplements and herbal remedies I recommend are available on my customized online holistic apothecary. Find the best supplements that have gone through my thorough screening process there. Look in the category for uterine irritability/false labor or search them individually. My online dispensary is a convenient way for you to purchase my hand-picked, professional-grade, whole food supplements and other natural health products. Ordering is simple, and the products will be shipped directly to your home or work within a few days. See some samples from the apothecary at bottom of this blog.
For persistent irregular uterine cramping that is not associated with labor, make sure you are getting plenty of calcium and magnesium in your diet. Start by eating lots of green leafy and seaweed veggies, ground sesame seeds (tahini), wild caught fish like salmon, almonds, whole grains, and organic yogurt and cheese. Avoid excessive cow dairy intake, coffee and soda, and even spinach, which decreases calcium absorption. You may need additional supplementation. Take at least 400 mg magnesium and 1200 mg calcium daily in 2-3 divided doses, or make your own infusion of nettles and red raspberry leaf tea, using the recipe here.
Also, helpful herbs to reduce cramping are cramp bark, black haw, and wild yam. You can experiment with one of them at a time, or use all together in combination. Take 1 - 5 cc of each tincture every 30 minutes to few hours, depending on how often and intense the cramping is (particularly if it is interfering with your sleep each night in the last several weeks of pregnancy).
Prior to 37 weeks, you need to drink 2 large glasses of water, lie down and contact your midwife or doctor immediately if you experience any of these potential warning signs of premature labor:
A feeling of your uterus tightening or cramping in a pattern of every 15 minutes
Cramping becomes closer, longer and stronger
Dull lower backache that feels different than usual (not related to position or strain)
Pressure or fullness in your pelvic area like something is going to fall out
An increased amount of discharge, fluid or bleeding from your vagina
Persistent diarrhea or intestinal cramping
A sense that something isn’t right
As Things Progress
Toward the last several days to weeks of pregnancy, Braxton Hicks contractions can be frequent enough to feel like early labor, and can thus lead to frustration and exhaustion, especially if they are keeping you from sleeping. In this case, it is important that you encourage them to go away at night so you can sleep well. Unplug from the computer or smartphone after dark, dim the lights and go to bed early. For more support winding down, take a warm bath with your favorite essential oils, ask your partner to give you a soothing massage with a few drops of lavender in almond oil, read a boring book or watch light drama or a comedy, and drink a glass of warm milk. But if you need something stronger and do not have a history of alcohol addiction, drink a glass of wine or beer, or take 2 shots of whiskey in juice or before going to bed. Or try alcohol free Hops. Sufficient rest is essential to give you the needed strength for the hard work of labor to come.
Common herbs taken alone or in combination, to ease discomfort once you are in early labor are:
Motherwort tincture ¼ to ½ dropperful up to every few hours
Skullcap tincture ¼ to ½ dropperful up to every hour
St. John’s Wort tincture a dropperful up to every hour
For sleep, you can try a great mineral combination of magnesium and calcium in approximately equal amounts like 400 mg each, or doubling the magnesium available in tasty powder form to make a warm drink.
If you are interested in herbs, take 2 capsules of herbal Valerian standardized extract (400-900 mg) or Hops (300-600 mg). Using these herbs together in lower dose combination can be more effective.
Also, try CBD from hemp oil, several drops under the tongue and repeat every few hours as needed. This is the new rage, as it helps promote sleep without the potential risks of the THC component of cannabis on the developing fetus. Results from anecdotal evidence and preliminary research, although sparse (as is common with most natural remedies in pregnancy), are promising. Make sure it is absolutely pure, and from a reputable source who can recommend proper dosing or from pharmacies licensed to dispense it, as it is largely unregulated.
During the day, you have the choice of carrying on as usual and letting nature take its course, or encouraging the contractions to develop into a progressive early labor pattern by:
Taking a long brisk walk alternating with climbing stairs
Engaging in another sort of upright but gentle exercise activity like dancing - do both slow sensual with your partner, and more upbeat, funky hip hop, belly or African styles. Turn on the music that speaks to you, get lost in it and move like no one is watching.
Getting romantic and sensual, and having sexual intercourse
Rolling and pulling on your nipples as a baby would do during breastfeeding
Using a breast pump
Continue these activities until you get regular contractions every 5 minutes lasting at least 45 seconds. In any case, make sure to drink lots of fluids and eat small frequent meals of nourishing food (especially whole grains, nuts, seeds, beans, fresh fruit and vegetables, and healthy protein) as an athlete does who is running a marathon. Do something that you enjoy and/or organize a pleasant change of scenery, express your fears and emotions with your partner, a close friend or family member, and try to surrender to the process.
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